Bao bei N Me



Bao bei N Me

Lol...
Cant Sleep so update my blog lo...
Hehe....
Finally Friday liao 29/08/08!!!
Mean after today i'm free!!!
lol...
I'm going to have a long and hot shower!!!
hehe!!!

Yesterday 28/08/08,
Annie my senior come and visit me another reason is see my bao bei la!!!
Haven seen her for a few years liao wor!! (she become more pretty!!)
Been chatting with her for a few hours!!!
Around 4+ she have to go...
Need to cook dinner for her husband...
1 word to describe her is er shi si siao de hao lao po!!!
Her husband is damn lucky to have her as a wife lo!!!
SO ANNIE'S HUSBAND BETTER DUN BULLY HER HOR!!!
Lol...
As for mi i'm nt a er shi si siao de hao lao po lo...
Haha...
So ken is unlucky to have mi as his wife lo...
I dunno hw to cook!!!
i dun like to do housework!!!
i only know how to eat drink play enjoy!!!
Haha!!!

Shall end here!!!
Will update more!!!



Annie give mi de present N ang bao is for bao bei full month de lo!!!

Thanks ANNIE!!!

I order this full month cake for my relative and frenz.



Nice right!!! look delicious wor!!!



This is their personalized babycard that come with the cake!!

Lol...
My confinement still left with 3 more days!!!
Saturday can wash my hair liao wor!!!
And This Sunday is my bao bei full month buffet wor!!!
(guys do remember to come wor!!!)

Below is all the present i received for my bday lo...



Jie Jie give mi de present!!!



Kuku Hui Ying give mi de present!!!



Apple N Xue Ting give mi de present!!(Bear Bear is for bao bei lo!!)



Hui Yi N Eileen give mi de present!!!



Shirley give mi de present!!!

AND not forgotten my baby de cake and pizza!!!
Thanks all of you for the lovely presents!!!

Hehe...
Find it interesting in slyvian blog...

What Gan Shi Hua Means

You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life. You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone. Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs. You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals. You are the total package - suave, sexy, smart, and strong. You have the whole world under your spell, and you can influence almost everyone you know. You don't always resist your urges to crush the weak. Just remember, they don't have as much going for them as you do. You are truly an original person. You have amazing ideas, and the power to carry them out. Success comes rather easily for you... especially in business and academia. Some people find you to be selfish and a bit overbearing. You're a strong person. You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing. You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long. You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start. You are a very lucky person. Things just always seem to go your way. And because you're so lucky, you don't really have a lot of worries. You just hope for the best in life. You're sometimes a little guilty of being greedy. Spread your luck around a little to people who need it.

Hihi...
Hehe... Finally i'm 21 liao...
Yesterday celebrate my bday at my home lo as i'm doing confinement!!!
Thanks for all my friends who come for my celebration...
And thanks for all your presents!!!
AND SPECIALLY THANKS TO AUNTIE HY!!!
I LOVE THE GUCCI PERFUME LO!!!
And lastly thanks to my baby for every things lo...
Without him i don't think I'll be able to celebrate my bday!!!
Anyway Thanks Baby...
I LOVE YOU YA!!!
*sorry There is no pic as i put on alot of weight so don't wan to take any Pic...

Hihi...
Been staying at home for 18 days liao lo...
super sianz lo...
lol...
But i'll go back ken's house 2 days early...
as his mummy say need to bring bao bei for hair cut...
haha...
FInally my confinement going to finish liao lo...
COUNT DOWN!!!
12 MORE DAYS!!!
Tml will be my bday lo...
Have a small celebration at my own house as i cant go out!!!
and can see my bao bei too!!!
Lol...
Haiz...
finally 21 liao...
SIanz lo..
dunno wat to say or type also...
As nth speacial happened!!!
Btw wat can happened when i'm at home!!!
CORRECT!!!
Okie la...
SHall stop here...

Take care...
See ya!!!

I saw this at someone's blog and I found it so meaningful

thinking will you do the same thing???
to hold me forever ????????



"On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms. The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then plump and shy. I was a strong and happy bridegroom.
This was the scene of ten years ago.
The following days were as simple as a cup of pure water: we had a kid,I went into business and tried to make more money. When the assets were steadily increasing, the affections between us seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.
Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the calm life was more likely to be affected by unpredictable changes.
Dew came into my life.
It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment I bought for her.
Dew said, You are the kind of man who best draws girls eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we just married, my wife said, Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn t help doing so.
I moved Dew's hand aside and said, You go to select some furniture,O.K.? I ve got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, because I had promised her to go and see with her. At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something impossible to me.
However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt. Honestly,she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner. I was sitting together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew’sbody. This was the means of my entertainment.
One day I said to her in a slight joking way, suppose we divorce, what will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word.Apparently she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I couldn t imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.
When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife with a sympathetic eye and tried to hide something while talking with her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes.Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more.
When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I ve got something to tell you, I said.She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.Suddenly I didn t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want to divorce. I raised a serious topic calmly.
She didn t seem to be much annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? . I m serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer turned her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!
At that night, we didn t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew.
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart.The woman who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But I could not take back what I had said.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.
A late night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I fell asleep fast. When I woke up, I found she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.
She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn t want anything from me,but I was supposed to give her one months time before divorce, and inthe month s time we must live as normal life as possible. Her reason was simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and shedidn t want him to see our marriage was broken.
She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do you still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day?This question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me.I nodded and said, I remember . You carried me in your arms , she continued, so, I have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the door every morning.
I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished to end her marriage with a romantic form.
I told Dew(BITCH) about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly andthought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her words more or less mademe feel uncomfortable.
My wife and I hadn t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried her out for the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly, Let us start from today, don t tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for bus, I drove to office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on mychest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn t looked at this intimate woman carefully for along time. I found she was not young any more. There were some finewrinkles on her face.
On the third day, she whispered to me, The outside garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass there.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The visualization of Dew became vaguer.
On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as,where she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc.I nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger.
I didn t tell Dew about this.
I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. I said to her, It seems not difficult to carry you now.
She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out. She tried quite a few but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, All mydresses have grown fatter. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she was thinner that I could carry her more easily, not becauseI was stronger. I knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart.Again, I felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head.
Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it s time to carry mum out. He said.To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part of his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom,through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.
On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step.Our son had gone to school. She said, Actually I hope you will hold me in your arms until we are old.
I held her tightly and said, Both you and I didn t notice that our lifewas lack of such intimacy.
I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won t divorce. I'm serious.
She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no fever. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I can only say sorry to you, I won t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn t value the details of life, not becausewe didn t love each other any more. Now I understand that since Icarried her into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say sorry to you.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into cry. I walked downstairs and drove to the office.When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me to write the greeting words on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out everymorning until we are old."

Hihi...
Sianz...
Really counting down for my confinement month lo...
17 DAYS MORE...
Agrrr...
How to survive???
Haiz...

15 August 2008
My muumy bring bao bei go polyclinic again...
Finally yellowish drop to 83 liao...
Haha...
So dun need to bring him go polyclinic anymore...
Lol...
Very sianz lo...
Really nothing to do...
Working also sianz...
not working also very sianz...
Haiz...

Shall end here lo...
See ya...

13 August 2008

LOL...
very sianz lo...
been at home for 11 days liao...
really counting down to the end of my confinement lo...
19 days more!!!
Finally i BATH today..
but the water boil with herb lo...
But whose care!!!
As long as i can bath...
aND my bday is next thursday 21 aug...
Thinking to celebate my bday at house lo...
So that can see my bao bei also...
Anyone wanna come!!!

will update more soon!!!
Take care!!
miss ya...

Till The End

All these precious moments,
With you by my side
Must be a gift from heaven, That's holding me all night
I don't know how I found you, I'm thankful that I have
Now that I have a love so true, To hold, to keep, to share

*In my heart I can no longer hold inside
All of the love I used to hide
I'll always be with you until the very end
In this world there is no place I'd rather be
You are my life, my soul, my girl
And through it all I know
That you're come to see that you're the one till the end

All my friends around me,
Say you'd be gone too soon
Baby I'm gonna make them see
We've found our way back home

Hi....
I'm back liao...
haiz... been at home for 9 days liao lo...
(without going out wor...)
1st time sia... see i so guai...
Lol...
Yesterday 10th aug...
My ah gong and ah yi come my house and visit mi and bao bei lo...
Wah... they bring alot of dome, baby's clothes etc...
Sianz...
Have to drink alot of dome liao lo...
after my ah gong they all leave, my mother-in-law they all come and visit mi and my bao bei lo...
And she bring pig leg vinegar lo...
Haiz...
Really very sian lo...
Sick and tired of the confinement food...
Honestly speaking i really need to have a nice and long shower...
Haven been bathing for 10 days liao lo...
Dunno which idiot person set the rule that confinement month CANNOT BATH!!!
Agrrrr....

Today 11th Aug...
My mummy bring bao bei to polyclinic again to see if the yellowish degree drop...
Haha... is drop from 250+ to 130+...
But the doctor wan bao bei to come back on fri again...
Cos the degree have to be below 100 to be save lo...
Hopefully it drop less then 100 lo...
So that bao bei dun need to go polyclinic again...
Haha...

Haiz...
Going to lay down liao...
Ar bo later mummy nag again lo...
Say ppl during confinement month is resting and sleeping de...
where gt like you!!!
Later u old liao then u know...
Later here pain there pain...
Haha...
Listen till i can remember the sentence liao...
Okie la...

See ya...
Take Care...
Buai...

Wah...
Sianz lo...
Really very bo liao l0...
Confinement really very boring de lo...
Bored till i waste my time to change blog skin again...
NICE ma??
Actually today is my delivery due de lo...
Haha...
But bao bei born 6 days early lo...
Lucky my bao bei still sleeping soundly otherwise i also dun have time to update!!
Actually today really got nothing special to update lo...
Hope my confinement month faster finish ar bo bored till hell!!!

Shall end here La...
Take Care!!!

人的一生會遇上的四個人

人生就是為了找尋愛的過程，
每個人的人生都要找到四個人

第一個是自己,

第二個是你最愛的人，

第三個是最愛你的人，

第四個是共度一生的人.

首先會遇到你最愛的人，然後體會到愛的感覺；
因為了解被愛的感覺，所以才能發現最愛你的人；
當你經歷過愛人與被愛，學會了愛，才會知道什麼是你需要的，
也才會找到最適合你，能夠相處一輩子的人。
但很悲哀的，在現實生活中，這三個人通常不是同一個人；
你最愛的，往往沒有選擇你；
最愛你的，往往不是你最愛的；
而最長久的，偏偏不是你最愛也不是最愛你的，
只是在最適合的時間出現的那個人。
你，會是別人生命中的第幾個人呢？
沒有人是故意要變心的，他愛你的時候是真的愛你，
可是他不愛你的時候也是真的不愛你了，
他愛你的時候沒有辦法假裝不愛你；
同樣的，他不愛你的時候也沒有辦法假裝愛你 。
當一個人不愛你要離開你，
你要問自己還愛不愛他，
如果你也不愛他了，千萬別為了可憐的自尊而不肯離開；
如果你還愛他，你應該會希望他過得幸福快樂，
希望他跟真正愛的人在一起，絕不會阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已經不愛他了，
而如果你不愛他，你又有什麼資格指責他變心呢？
愛不是佔有，
你喜歡月亮，不可能把月亮拿下來放在臉盆裡，
但月亮的光芒仍可照進你的房間。
換句話說，你愛一個人，也可以用另一種方式擁有，
讓愛人成為生命裡的永恆回憶，
如果你真愛一個人，就要愛他原來的樣子─愛他的好，也愛他的壞：
愛他的優點，也愛他的缺點，
絕不能因為愛他，就希望他變成自己所希望的樣子，
萬一變不成就不愛他了。
真正愛一個人是無法說出原因的，
你只知道無論何時何地、心情好壞，你都希望這個人陪著你；
真正的感情是兩人能在最艱苦中相守，也就是沒有絲毫要求。
畢竟，感情必須付出，而不是只想獲得；
分開是一種必然的考驗，
如果你們感情不夠穩固，只好認輸，
真愛是不會變成怨恨的。
兩人在談情說愛的時候，
最喜歡叫對方發誓，許下承諾我們為什麼要對方發誓，
就是因為我們不相信對方，我們根本不相信情人，
而這些山盟海誓又很不切實際：
海枯石爛、地老天荒，都不能改變我對你的愛!
明知道海不會枯、石不會爛、地不會老、天不會荒；
就算會，也活不到那時候。
許下諾言的時候千萬注意，不要許下可以實現的諾言，
最好是承諾做不到的事，
反正做不到的，隨便說說也不要緊，
請記住：”不可能實現的諾言最動人”
在愛情裡，說的是一套，做的是另一套；
講的人不相信，聽的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第幾個？
茫茫人海中，你遇見了誰？誰又遇見了你?

finally my bao bei 5 days old liao wor....

Haiz... but my bao bei skin is so yellowish lo...
Been to polyclinic twice liao lo...
the doctor say if the yellowish wont drop have to send him to KK hospital lo...
Put him under those light ba?? no ideal also!!
hopefully by Monday the yellowish will drop!!
At least now bao bei skin nt that yellowish liao lo...
Thanks to my mummy!!!
She use those traditional pattern lo...
Haiz... Heart pain to see bao bei like this!!!!!!

Shall end here!!



Bao Bei 5 days old



Bao Bei 5 days old

*Look like mi or ken le??? lol!!!

Finally i Update My Blog!!!

A GOOD new for you all....
I have give birth liao...
On the 2 of August 2008...
Been in the delivery suit for bout 14 hour plus lo...
One word to describe is PAIN...
Stay in the ward for 1 day only lo...
yesterday just discharge lo...
Should end my story here...
Kinda lazy to type...



Xavier Peh Just Born out...



Xavier Peh 1 Day old...



Xavier Peh 1 Day old... My mummy is feeding him!!

Y Cindy Gan
Y 21st August 1987
Y Mother Of Xavier
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