人生就是為了找尋愛的過程，
每個人的人生都要找到四個人

第一個是自己,
第二個是你最愛的人，
第三個是最愛你的人，
第四個是共度一生的人.
首先會遇到你最愛的人，然後體會到愛的感覺；
因為了解被愛的感覺，所以才能發現最愛你的人；
當你經歷過愛人與被愛，學會了愛，才會知道什麼是你需要的，
也才會找到最適合你，能夠相處一輩子的人。
但很悲哀的，在現實生活中，這三個人通常不是同一個人；
你最愛的，往往沒有選擇你；
最愛你的，往往不是你最愛的；
而最長久的，偏偏不是你最愛也不是最愛你的，
只是在最適合的時間出現的那個人。
你，會是別人生命中的第幾個人呢？
沒有人是故意要變心的，他愛你的時候是真的愛你，
可是他不愛你的時候也是真的不愛你了，
他愛你的時候沒有辦法假裝不愛你；
同樣的，他不愛你的時候也沒有辦法假裝愛你 。
當一個人不愛你要離開你，
你要問自己還愛不愛他，
如果你也不愛他了，千萬別為了可憐的自尊而不肯離開；
如果你還愛他，你應該會希望他過得幸福快樂，
希望他跟真正愛的人在一起，絕不會阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已經不愛他了，
而如果你不愛他，你又有什麼資格指責他變心呢？
愛不是佔有，
你喜歡月亮，不可能把月亮拿下來放在臉盆裡，
但月亮的光芒仍可照進你的房間。
換句話說，你愛一個人，也可以用另一種方式擁有，
讓愛人成為生命裡的永恆回憶，
如果你真愛一個人，就要愛他原來的樣子─愛他的好，也愛他的壞：
愛他的優點，也愛他的缺點，
絕不能因為愛他，就希望他變成自己所希望的樣子，
萬一變不成就不愛他了。
真正愛一個人是無法說出原因的，
你只知道無論何時何地、心情好壞，你都希望這個人陪著你；
真正的感情是兩人能在最艱苦中相守，也就是沒有絲毫要求。
畢竟，感情必須付出，而不是只想獲得；
分開是一種必然的考驗，
如果你們感情不夠穩固，只好認輸，
真愛是不會變成怨恨的。
兩人在談情說愛的時候，
最喜歡叫對方發誓，許下承諾我們為什麼要對方發誓，
就是因為我們不相信對方，我們根本不相信情人，
而這些山盟海誓又很不切實際：
海枯石爛、地老天荒，都不能改變我對你的愛!
明知道海不會枯、石不會爛、地不會老、天不會荒；
就算會，也活不到那時候。
許下諾言的時候千萬注意，不要許下可以實現的諾言，
最好是承諾做不到的事，
反正做不到的，隨便說說也不要緊，
請記住：”不可能實現的諾言最動人”
在愛情裡，說的是一套，做的是另一套；
講的人不相信，聽的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第幾個？
茫茫人海中，你遇見了誰？誰又遇見了你？

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Hihi...
I'm Back Again...

14 September 2007

End my Office Job...
Rush to Ohs to work...
Reach there around 7+…
So I faster rush to the uniform counter to get my uniform….
Whose know…?
The counter closed liao…
So I tot going back…
Siti came down find mi…
So I told her tat the counter closed…
She help mi call Terry…
Terry called mi go up…
So I went up lo with my own clothes…
Terry called mi over…
He called mi to fold napkins…
Wow… first time…
Just come to work and fold napkins…
Fold till 9+…
Then finish folding liao…
Help 1 trainee to clean the show plates…
Haha…
Then I keep MIA…
Cos siti keep jio mi goes smoke…
MIA till 10+…
Help siti to close vouchers…
Already 11pm liao…
So I go down wait for the night coordinator to issue money…
Went to baby’s house…

15 September 2007

Saturday liao…
Sleep till quit late…
Baby’s mummy packet chicken rice for us…
Had our lunch and went back my home to rest…
Cos later still got work in OHS at 6pm
Went back home had a lunch again with my mummy and jie jie…
Reach around 3+…
Thinking tat it is still early took a nap…
Suddenly awake…
Look at the time…
OMG… it is 8+ liao..
Damn…
So called siti lo…
In order to compensate her…
Need to work on 16 September lo…
Sianz…
So around 11+pm…
Went to baby’s house again…
Actually baby had to do some paper work de….
But he so toot….
Forget to bring back his paper…
Haha…
I cook Maggie for him lo…
Had our Maggie for supper and watch FOLLOW THE LAW…
Watched half way…
Quite tired so end it…


15 September 2007

Wake up quit early today…
Actually have breakfast with baby’s mummy de lo...
Haha…
Baby didn’t wake mi up…
But he said he did…
Said I dun wan to wake up….
Agrr…
Around 10+ they came back lo…
Baby packet Mee Hoon for mi and his brother…
So faster had my breakfast and bath…
Cos baby need to reach restaurant early to do his paper work…
So took train back home lo….
Reached home…
Again took a nap…
Haha…
But this time I woke up…
Reached OHS around 5.30pm lo…
Change and find Xin Yee…
Had my dinner at canteen lo…
Then saw Shun and Frankie…
Stupid Frankie said he today be security cos he forgets to bring name tag….
In the end… bluff us…
Haha…
Today mi 1 to 2 lo…
Quite relax …. Cos there is a guy help mi to pick up food for mi…
Finally end work…
Took last train to baby’s house with LiLi and Cecelia…
Had my supper at Macdonald with Cecelia…
We bleah bleah bleah till 1.20am like tat…
Went back to baby’s house…
But baby haven reach home yet…
So I went up myself…
Took a shower and he’s back…
And we sleep…
Need to wake up early…

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What is Love and What is Marriage...???!!!

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question,
go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once & cannot turn back to pick.
"The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat,
but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one...
but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field,
he starts to realise that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw,
he knew he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "...this is love...
you keep looking for better ones, but when later you realise,
you have already missed the person ...."

"What is marriage then?"
the student asked.The teacher said, "in order to answer your question,
go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick." The student went to the corn field,
this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake,
when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium sized corn that he felt satisfied, and came back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn....
you look for one that is just nice,
and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get....
this is marriage.


* sO Guys... Dun MisS ThE ChanCe... TreaSure It...

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13 September 2007

Had a big big fight with baby…
Due to he no time for mi…
After work meet up with Xin Yee and Bridget
Had our dinner at KFC…
Yummy… delicious…
I was damn hungry lo…
Had not been eating for the whole day….
After dinner we went shop shop but I had no mood…
So I suggest we went to the nearest block there to sit and chat lo…
After awhile Xin Yee had to go cos she was meeting Chong Lin…
Left me and Bridget lo…
So we sit there and chit lo…
So I called Bridget to called baby to get back my bear bear…
And they bleah bleah bleah…
After they put down…
Bridget accompany me meet baby at his house…
I and baby had a talk…
In the end had a big quarrel…
So we left…
I was so angry I throw my bear bear away…
And walked off…
After awhile I went back to find my bear bear….
But I couldn’t found it anymore…
Sob sob… I lost my precious bear bear…
Bear bear where you are…
I miss you…
Got to go….
Have to work…

Take care,
Miss ya
*will upload more….

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Hi gUyS... i'm Back...
HahA...
12 September 2007
Meet My Besties yi Gek...
Pass Her somethIngs...
Then Together Went To farrer Market cos her daughter at There...
wHere Her PArents Open A coffee Stall AT there MA..
On THe Way To faRRer Market..
We Chat aLOt...
So LOng Din nOt ChaT wIth Her Liao...
Kinda Miss The Time wHen She Did nOt have a Child...
We Will chat tIll in The morning HAve breakfasT then Go bacK home...
haha...
Reach there Saw HEr Daughter (jUn Ru Aka Gal GAl)
Wow... She can Walk, ran and talk...
haha...
so i bring her to the nearest 7-11 buy sweets for her lo...
then we bleah bleah bleah till 10+...
tooK taxI home with her 2 younger sisters...
but Jun ru only wan mi to carry her...
and say bye bye to her mummy...
haha..
yi gek was damn angry lo...
inside the taxi...
we chat chat till reach her place...
so yi gek carry jun ru out of the taxi...
Jun ru started to cry...
oh poor jun Ru...
okie lo...
got to go..
shall upload more...
today mostly having dinner with xin Yee at bugis..

take care...
miss ya...

HahA...
Back Again...
yEsterday went to watch movie with my collagues, her husband and baby...
the movie is very nice...
jet Li is so cool...
Guys i think u should watch it...
haha...
Now inside office lo...
haiz...
again nothing to do...
Sianz...
i Shall end here...
Gt to work liao...
Cos boss is here...
haha

Take care...
miss Ya...
*will upload more...

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oH ya... Forget to mention...
lAter After Work...
Having Movie with my Colleague Juli, her husband and baby...
At LIdo...
the Movie is RogUE AssAssin...
Hope it is a NIce Show...
Cant wait for tonite...

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Haha...
I'm back...
xin Yee today first day at work...
wonder how is she doing...
hope she can work long long at this company...
anyway jia you xin yee...

8Th Sept 2007
wake up around 12+... had lunch with my baby and went to chinatown...
waited for xin yee for around 1 hr+ le...
Agrrr...so long...
actually is helpin baby to get his office stationary de lo...
but end up... shopping for my shoes and clothes....
haha...
in the end i g0t 1 pair of shoes and 2 pcs of tops...
xin yee g0t 1pair of shoes...
is a lady type of shoes wor...
around 10 we went to baby's working place...
for our dinner...
haha...
quarrel with baby again...
so i left his working place first...
so xin yee and mi went to the river there smoke....
suddenly i feel like going to club but xin yee not enough cash...
so we cancelled... but she promised m to go once she get her pay...
XIN YEE I WILL WAIT DE...
smoke finish we went back home...
on the way having a cold war with baby...
haha.... i win again...

9th Sept 2007
mi wake up around 2~3pm...
had a wonder sleep...
after bathing... i had lunch with baby, baby's mummy and kai wen(baby's bro son)
at northpoint...
finish our lunch...
we head to ubi Ave 1...
cos there got sale of flat...
we took train to eunos and took bus to ubi ave 1...
called xin yee to come down to meet us...
in the main time... we was searching for BLK 304...
finally we found it... went to the unit that is for sale...
we found it and we open the window to take a look inside the unit...
wow... quit big... mi and baby like that unit...
finally xin yee came...
after finish looking the unit...
we went to expo...
there is a mega sales for JOHN LITTER...
we started to shop at furniture department...
suddenly we walk past a wedding planner stall..
so we took a look at the picture and the plan lo....
wow they are having a promotion plans @ $3,388.00 lo...
quit cheap cos they offer alot of things...
after that we went to John litter sales....
wow... they sell the things very cheap...
baby said he went to the IT dept there...
so mi and xin yee went shopping again...
xin yee went to look for her mummy first cos her mummy working there...
after tat we went to the shoes dept, ladies interbeauty wear etc...
in the end i get 3 pcs of interbeauty wear and 1 power foundation...
after shop finish...
we went to have our dinner...
had our dinner at malaca restaurant (dunno malaca wat)
finish our dinner...
we went home...
once we reached home... baby faster online to vote for the unit at ubi ave 1 de...
but it is sell out...
Agrr... sad...no more liao...
we'll wait for next month lo...

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I'm back... Again inside the office doing nothing... s|anz...
suspose shopping today with baby de but cant...
cos he change to night shift... sob sob...
in order to compensate mi...
he promise to come over my place in the morning to have breaksfast with me...
if not i can dun meet him for my whole life...
but he overslept... AGrr...
so i dun wan to meet him anymore... hehe...
s|anz....
dunno later Going where...
sian sian sian...

* dunno why nowadays seem like mi and him is getting far apart...
dunno can last how long...
feel like he gt somethings hiding from mi...
I dun wan to think anymore... Let it be Ba...

Take care...
MIss ya...
*will upload more...

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finally Thursday liao...
Haiz...Now Inside office doing nothing so upload my blog lo...
WahaHa... Tml gOing ShoppIng With My Baby...
Cant Wait For Tml...
wAnnA buy Many MaNY thIngs...
Oh ya... Yesterday Went To eat Pasta With My Fren aT marina Square...
The pasta Is Japanese style de...
Delicious wor...
you GuyS can try at marina Square...
near food court there de restaurant...
hAha...
I shall End here...
Gt to work Liao...

Take carE...
Miss ya...
*wIll upload more...

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Hi Guys...

FinaLLy I reopen My blog AgaIn...
Dunno why I wan to reOpen...
sO guyS remember to relink Mi Wor...

Take Care...
Miss Ya...
*wIll upload More Soon....

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